Many important life milestones take place at church. Those of us who have grown up “in the church” know these rituals and routines all too well. Baptisms happen at church. Confirmation or membership happens in a service at church. While most people want a pastor to be involved in their wedding, I have fewer and fewer requests for “church weddings.” The involvement of the church in the everyday affairs of an average parishioner has predictable ebbs and flows, but when life becomes difficult, most people look toward the comforting words of faith, prayer, or a pastor. Finally, when death comes and we (those still on Earth) experience the transition from life to death, most people look to hold a funeral/memorial service at the church. Though the notion of a “celebration of life” has become more and more popular, the majority still embrace the classic comfort of a service at a church.
In these past weeks, we have been discussing the ways that our “light” is able to shine into the world and impact others for the sake of God’s Kingdom. As I think of the ways that ministries, programs, and the people of First Pres impact our community and world, I can’t overlook the service that is provided through our Congregational Care team when an individual dies.
“Pastor Adam, my family member recently died. Do you think you could help out our family and provide a funeral/memorial/graveside service?”
“Yes of course!”
“Could we do it at the church? It’s such a peaceful and beautiful place.”
“Absolutely.”
“What about after the service, is there something the church can provide?
“Certainly, our team is ready and waiting. They have their standard menu and ordinary
reception planned out. If that’s ok with you, just say the word and we can make that happen.
“Oh yes, thank you. That’s such a relief. There are just so many decisions we must make. This is such a relief.”
The death of a family member is always a significant event. As a congregation, we have the chance to provide care, comfort, and support. Additionally, while the services are an opportunity for grief and for sharing, they are also a key instance where the Good News of the Gospel is proclaimed, and the hope of the resurrection to eternal life is preached. A funeral service is NOT for the person who has died. These services, remembrances, and gatherings are for the living to share the love of God. This is one more way we help Christ’s light to shine in our community and for the sake of God’s kingdom.
Very truly,
Pastor Adam
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